1. LEAVE A LOVE NOTE FOR HIM
Nothing touches a man’s heart than to find a romantic note left on his breakfast table after you have left home early for whatever reason so that your surprise is complete. He discovers that you are not at home and therefore savors the good feelings alone as he looks forward to your coming home soonest into his warm embrace.
You can also buy him a little gift like a brand new pyjamas. Make sure your short love note is attached to the gift. Do not wait until his birthday before you surprise him.Be spontaneous in your expression especially when he has been acting funny for the past few days.
2. USE THE POWER OF TOUCH.
Most men easily respond to the sense of touch. Practice holding hands from time to time. You can just hold his hands, look into his eyes and smile. You can spend time with him as he watches his favourite Tv programme or soap opera. Share your time with him in what interests him.Always, keep the energy flowing in your relationship on a regular basis.
3. SAY “I LOVE YOU”, OFTEN.
There is law court in the land that forbids you to say, “ I love you” to your partner. The three letter phrase can turn around even a relationship heading down hill. These words can heal, inspire, encourage, and even transform the most hardened heart if used properly. No human being can be tired of hearing these words. Mean what you say and really say what you mean.
Sometimes, you will be surprised about how many who just want you to hear you say those words to them over and over. This serves as a form of assurance that the relationship is growing stronger. Do say these words as if you are reciting a national anthem. Look for the right opportunity or time to use the words.
4. TAKE HIM OUT FOR LUNCH.
You can invite your partner out on a surprise lunch.Start a conversation on the good old days when you first met. Ask him reshare with you how he first met you. Let him tell you about the feelings he had for you at that time. Hold his plays back those pleasant memories and reassure him of your love. Tell him, you had forgiven in whatever ways he had wronged you. Crack some jokes and have some fun.
5. BE HIS NUMBER 1 MOTIVATOR.
Every man needs a motivator. You can serve as his coach and motivator. There are times where he may be really experiencing live as an uphill task. He may be stressed and confused. This is where you bring in your inspirational expertise. Always, let him know that you believe in him. Tell him that you he will make it and the challenge he is experiencing is just temporary. Be sincere and be his number one fan. If you encourage on a consistent basis, you will be building a leader in your home who may go out to influence many lives.
The Gift
No comments:
Post a Comment